His short but effective lens is titled simply Valentine's Day 2011. He starts by pointing out that Valentine's Day is full of commercial hype; how spending the most money on indulgent gifts seems to be the path retailers want to lead you down in proving your love for another. He even says that society places undue pressure on those that have no one to share the holiday with.
In a poll in the first module, he asks if you think Valentine's Day is hoax or hype and encourages comments explaining your reasons.
Then, Rob gets to the meat of the issue. He is basically saying if you love someone, show them everyday in the everyday things you say. He says the tricky part is to follow those words with actions that reinforce the words. Show someone how much you love them as well as saying it.
He posted a list of 10 foolproof tips to show your love, your love. He backs up the tips with another list titled "30 Reasons Why I Love You". If you are at a loss for something to say or do for your love this Valentine's Day, start here. His lists of ideas don't include the giving of extravagant gifts, but of yourself. Isn't that what most of us would rather receive anyway?
Can you picture a child earnestly hand making a Valentine card for mom, dad or a grandparent? The lopsided little hearts and arrows drawn in red crayon on pink paper are a more cherished momento than any diamond pendant. Do you have an old, faded, worn card from your child or grandchild stuck in your top dresser drawer or in a scapbook? I know I do and I love to bring it out and remember the loving hands that created it.
Pure -- simple -- love.
Sprinkled throughout the lens are romantic song links, love song links, and a couple of videos. He does add one Amazon list but the products are all related to relieving stress. He says:
You see, listening is priceless and saying thank you is just basic etiquette. So, instead of making a big deal and stressing yourself out about Valentine's Day, just be genuinely nice. Commercialized affection and depression will be the thing of the past. All in good charity. Spread the love so none will be left out. Don't limit your acts of love but think universally. We are all connected separated by various degrees so, sprinkle the good stuff around. You will give respect as well as receive it.
Now, Rob's idea is not groundbreaking, innovative or even unique. But, sometimes, we all need a gentle reminder of why we love someone... and how to show them... everyday. Whether you get out your paper and crayons, give a foot massage or make a candlelit dinner for two... make everyday special with the one you love.
Happy Everyday to all!
Image Credit:Stick Girl Be Mine Valentine by valentinesday
Written by DecoratingforEvents
Lovely lens and the perfect sentiment for Valentine's Day... and everyday. Good choice, Mandee.
ReplyDeleteMandee, this is a great pick from a new lensmaster. I am totally on the same page with him on Valentine's Day. It's all about showing our love each and every day. He gives great tips on how to do that.
ReplyDeleteI agree ladies. I thought it was awesome that a man views it the same way we do. You know that's not always true... Mars and Venus! LOL
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