Hand Quilted Love

While we may be enjoying our summer break, we all know the beginning of a new school year is just around the corner. Even in the primary through high school years, there is a lot of planning and a great deal of preparation required before that first day.

When you are preparing to send a child off to college, there is a whole new world of concerns. One of the first challenges we face is the cost of tuition. In these uncertain economical times where job loss, downsizing and bankruptcies are a part of everyday concerns, the last thing we need is the fear of not being able to give our children what they need to prepare to provide for themselves in the future. A college education has become a necessity in many occupations and as parents; we want our children to succeed. However, for many of us, tuition is staggering and we have no idea how we are going to financially survive the first year, much less the subsequent years required to obtain a degree. Frequently, parents sacrifice a few non-essentials; perhaps even forego a vacation in order to subsidize our children's education. In some homes, it may become necessary to make even greater sacrifices.

I recently read an article about an intelligent and giving young woman who will be starting college in the fall. This young lady has already proven her academic ability during her high school years. In addition to her studies, she has earned her wings by becoming a licensed glider pilot and now works in that industry. She also gives her time to charitable needs in her community by volunteering with Habitat for Humanity.

I think we would all agree that this young woman deserves the opportunity to attend college, but the story doesn’t stop here. There is the question of tuition. I was deeply touched when I originally read this article because of the sacrifice her mother, Evelyn, is willing to make in order to help her daughter. In addition to any proceeds Evelyn earns from her articles on Squidoo, she is offering to sell her own new handmade quilt.

Now I ask you to think about that for a moment. It takes hundreds of hours of painstaking work with a needle and thread to hand make a quilt large enough to cover a queen sized mattress. Some quilters work on just one bedspread over the course of years before it is complete and ready to use.

Yes, I would say this is a sacrifice! It will not be a blanket easy to replace. Actually, it will be irreplaceable and yet this mother is willing to sell her quilt. Whether it started as a labor of love, I cannot say, but I do know this quilt symbolizes a true gift of love.

Education is one of the most valuable gifts we can give to our children, but love is the greatest gift.

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Females And The Fight For Freedom

As the 234th birthday of the United States approaches, I wanted to find out about the females who joined in the fight for freedom. We learned in our history classes about the Declaration of Independence being signed on July 4, 1776. Our history books are filled with accounts of the men who led the Revolutionary War efforts, battles that were fought, and so on. We can recall names like George Washington, Paul Revere, Thomas Jefferson, and Ben Franklin when it comes to the birth of our nation. There isn't much mention of the women in those historical days, though. If we think about it for a minute,  we should realize that there had to be women involved, somehow. After all, the Colonies were not inhabited by men alone.

Typically we think of the war being fought by the men and generally that was true. The women were left to protect the homesteads, raise the children, work the farms, and keep things going while their men were off starting a nation. Most of us know of the gal in Philadelphia who is given credit for making our first flag, Betsy Ross. Perhaps a few more of us have heard of Molly Pitcher who is said to have brought water to the soldiers in battle during the War of Independence. One tale of Molly tells of her taking over the cannon in a battle after her husband was wounded. Some historians feel that the tales of Molly Pitcher are a conglomeration of many females who helped in our fight for freedom.

Were there other female freedom fighters? Well, of course there were! I found a remarkable article written by CollectorsCottage about some women involved in the Revolutionary War efforts that you might not be aware of. In the article Revolutionary Heroes: Women As Homestead Warriors we find out about some remarkable women of that time in our history. We learn of a woman who enlisted in the army disguised as a man, not once but twice! Yes, she did! Her deception was found out quickly the first time but she did not let that defeat her. Deborah Sampson, disguised herself better the next time and actually served 3 years as a man the second time. We also learn about a female version of Paul Revere and a spy who most cunningly got news of an impending British attack on General Washington and his troops.  Lydia Barrington, the spy, not only saved the life of the man who would become our first President but was significant in turning the tides of the war over to the Colonists.

[amazon-product align="left" alink="3366FF" bgcolor="ffffff" bordercolor="FFFFFF" tracking_id="hubp0773-20"]1400075327[/amazon-product]Even if history really isn't your thing, I think you will enjoy reading about these remarkable and brave women who played a part in our having the freedom and the privilege to celebrate the 4th of July. Perhaps as you join your families this coming week and you enjoy the parades, the picnics, and the fireworks you could reflect a little on the females who also made this day possible. I plan to name their names as a firework goes off in honor of their bravery. How about you?

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Helping Children Deal With Pet Loss

Crystal recently wrote on Squidoo Lens Reviews of the pain of losing a much loved pet. I know the hearts of those of us who have ever shared our lives with a much-loved furred, feathered or finned companion went out to her.

The loss of a pet can leave a profound absence in your life and sometimes it is only once they are gone that you notice just how strong a bond you had formed and how much that gentle, loving presence meant to you and to the others who shared a home with them.

For children, the sudden absence of a dear friend can be confusing as well as upsetting. Often a cat, dog, or other pet will have been in the house almost as long -- or even longer -- than you have. Your pet can be every bit as much a family member to you as your siblings.

Just this week I heard a little girl across the road talking to a cat, her voice ringing out clear as she stroked it: "You're my best friend". I was instantly taken back to myself at the same age. For many kids, an animal may be their closest friend and confidante. For some, it may be their only true friend. They make no separation between two-legs and four, nor discriminate by whether their friend communicates in a human tongue or an animal one.

I think when some say that the children will soon get over the loss of such a friend, they underestimate this bond. One person, though, who understands the support kids need at such a difficult time is Molly Stevens.

You might not have met Molly yet as she is quite new to Squidoo, though has industriously been creating a collection of well-crafted children's book reviews -- and who better to do so than a children's librarian!

In Picture Books About the Death of a Pet, Molly presents us with 8 story books, each one designed to help kids deal with pet loss. And what enchanting reads they are. Girls and boys of all ages are featured in these books about death and grieving, so most children will find a character they can identify with. Cats and dogs are the main focus, but there is also a picture book about a pet mouse which ends with the poignant line: "So, maybe someday, I'll get another mouse. But not just yet."

These books, each one beautifully-reviewed by Molly, don't belittle the emotions or children but instead show them that grieving is natural and is something that can't be hurried, and that also the pain will lessen and will be replaced with happier memories and, in time, with new animal friends.

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Magical Dreamcatchers

Dreamcatchers are beautiful and magical. I mean just the name alone is interesting. Dreams can be elusive, very real while you’re in them, and then once you wake up they quickly fade from memory. I have often felt like I wanted to catch one of my dreams.

According to Wikipedia, dreamcatchers originated with the Ojibwa culture and are “handmade objects based on a willow hoop, on which is woven a loose net or web, then decorated with personal and sacred items such as feathers and beads.” While different meanings are attributed to them, they are generally seen as providing protection from bad dreams. I have had a gorgeous dreamcatcher hanging in my family room for the past fifteen years. And while it is a lovely decoration, it also gives me great comfort.

You can find out much more about dreamcatchers in this article, “What is a Dreamcatcher and How Do You Make One?” by Kathy McGraw. Kathy does not believe that there are “fake” dreamcatchers, as anyone can make one. However, someone should not pass off a dreamcatcher as being authentically Native American if it is not. Kathy once made unique and customized medicine wheels and dreamcatchers for others. She would lovingly spend days or weeks incorporating a person’s uniqueness into the design. On her page, she shares the history of the dreamcatcher, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to make one, including what supplies you will need and where to get them. There are videos of someone making a simple, contemporary dreamcatcher as well as one of a Native American making a traditional dreamcatcher. There are even links to Native American music that can provide inspiration while making your dreamcatcher.

I think that making a dreamcatcher would be a great project to do with kids, to introduce them to Native American lore and to give them a vehicle for expressing who they are.

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Are You Judgmental of Others? Journey from Judgment to Love

What's your first response when you hear the question, "Are you judgmental of others?"

Do you find yourself automatically saying, "No way. I don't judge," or do you hear yourself making sort of a "pfff" sound with your mouth before saying, "Nope. Not me"?

Is your answer truthful??

I think if we're honest, we're all judgmental of others to a certain extent. Even if we don't want to be. Even if we don't believe in being judgmental.

Maybe we're not even aware that we're doing it.

This was the case for lensmaster, puzzlemaker. She writes, "Have you ever had one of those moments when you were gently (or not so gently) nudged into an understanding that forces you to change your thinking?" For puzzlemaker, this came in the form of a tiny, but powerful book. She continues, "Glancing through the pages, I felt the warm oil of an epiphany pouring over me. I continued skimming the book and an encompassing understanding filled me. I was judging people."

I love the honesty.

And I appreciate the fact that puzzlemaker chose to share her realization and her journey with others through this lens on overcoming judgment of others. She does a great job of weaving in a review of the book that touched her life, as well as highlighting her journey from judgment to love.

A key point that puzzlemaker highlights is the value of all human beings. This is something that I believe strongly in. There's no place for judgment in the midst of fellow humans who are all infinitely worthy. With this awareness, love replaces judgment: "What if I put LOVE in the place of judgment? What if I lift someone up instead of tearing them down with my words? What if I point out something good about someone in the midst of their problems? How will it change their day? How will it change mine?"

With empathy, puzzlemaker also looks at things from the perspective of what it feels like to be judged and she addresses the vital element of forgiveness.

What's your experience with judging or being judged?

Did this lens help to change your thinking?

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A Priceless Heirloom

Many of us have mementos we treasure, heirlooms we would call priceless because their sentimental value is greater than any dollar amount. These treasures are a reminder of our loved ones and often hold a powerful message of love left to us by our ancestors.

Such precious items become even more meaningful when we are able to share them with our own heirs and see them entrusted to the next generation symbolizing the unbreakable bond of family.

Mary Beth tells the story of a beautiful gift handmade by her devoted and loving aunt. What a joy it must have been for her aunt to see her niece, the first recipient of this gift, wear the lovely christening dress that, no doubt, took many hours to piece together. As the years passed, her heart surely must have overflowed as she watched this gown passed from one girl to the next, adding even more significance to this one gift.

Mary Beth shares how she has gotten to see three of her own granddaughters wear this dress. Can you imagine seeing your own grandchild wear something you wore as an infant? So much love had to go into just preserving this gown to be able to pass it down – a true testament of the reverence to this keepsake. I can imagine each mother gently folding and wrapping this precious piece of cloth after their daughters have worn it, then gingerly tucking it away to await the next recipient so that they too will be allowed to feel the embrace of the maker’s love even when they cannot be embraced by her arms.

I would like to invite you to visit Mary Beth’s article, The Christening Dress, where she recounts the past, her memories of a thoughtful aunt and leads us right into the present. She even shares photos of the babies wearing this irreplaceable gift. They are all quite precious!

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Happy Birthday Kris Kristofferson

Listen, I've been a fan of Kris Kristofferson for more years than some of you have probably been on this planet. As luck would have it, it is my turn to write today and it is Kris's Birthday. So, I'm wishing that "Silver Tongued Devil" one Happy Birthday! I won't embarrass him or myself and tell you just how long I've been one of his biggest fans, just suffice it to say we've both been around the block a time or two.

Just in case you have never heard of Kris Kristofferson, I did find a wonderful article written by GypsyLyric who seems to be as big a fan as I am. Her Who Is Kris Kristoffersn? gives you the low down on his life, his songs, and his movies. I would have to agree with her...Kris can "Help Me Make It Through The Night" or day or anytime he wants to! I can admit that when I started to do an article on Kris Kristofferson, I found Gypsy's and decided that I really couldn't do a better one.

I've actually had the pleasure of talking to Kris several times after a concert of his. The first time was back in the 1980s when after having been a fan of his for quite some time, I attended my first Kristofferson concert in New Jersey. What I did not know at the time was that the gal who asked me to go with her had written a book about Kris with his permission. As we walked to our car, we passed a parking lot and this familiar voice says, "Marcy is that you?" I look up and the voice is none other than Kris his own self! I almost wet my pants right there in front of him! He was nice and sincerely thanked us for coming to see him that night.

After I moved back to Indiana, Kris gave a few more concerts in Indianapolis. I went to every single one. His tour bus wasn't difficult to find, so I would walk on over after the concert and wait for him to come out. Yep, just like a little groupie! Thing is, he just seems like a regular guy. He is so surprised and almost humbled that anyone likes his music and his movies. I think that is what makes him even more endearing to me as a fan. His humility. Here he is a songwriter who has written hit songs for Johnny Cash and other big name stars and has been in over 50 movies who stands there and talks to you like you are an old and dear friend.

So, Kris if you should happen to see this review I'm gonna say this "One More Time With Feeling"....Happy Birthday Kris!

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A Special Birthday Message

Today is a special day here at Squidoo Lens Reviews. We would all like to wish a very happy birthday to the blog creator, editor-in-chief and our friend, MiMi!

MiMi is known as GrowWear on Squidoo and has a range of motivational t-shirts and other gifts on Cafe Press by the same name. While everyone should have a happy childhood, MiMi knows from her own experience that this is sadly not always the case. Her mission in creating this range was to inspire and encourage others who have suffered from neglect and need reminding of their worth. Her compassion and wish to help others in their own journey of personal growth is reflected in several of her 81 Squidoo lenses, including Children: Building Character, Top 10 Personal Growth Songs That Inspire, Quotes About Success, and The Top 10 Motivational Quotations.

She joined Squidoo in January 2007. During this time, she has also served as a Giant Squid Greeter, Giant Squid Challenge Leader and an Honorary Squid Angel. She is one of Squidoo's most popular and respected figures.

Squidoo Lens Reviews was a project that MiMi launched in July 2008. She ran the blog single-handedly, giving shout-outs, nods, and promotion to remarkable Squidoo lenses, until early 2010 when she extended an invitation to write for the blog to a small group of lensmasters. Needless to say, we all jumped at the chance! These days, MiMi's work is for the most part behind the scenes, but don't be fooled, she works as hard as ever to ensure the smooth running of this project in addition to promoting Squidoo Lens Reviews to reach an ever-widening readership.

MiMi has established herself as the queen of pink with her top-ranked lens, Pink Tool Kits For Women, and not far behind it the companion Pink Gardening Tools For Women. Her lensography also includes tributes to two of her dearest Squidoo friends in Be Positive: Like Joan Adams and Drifter0658. But I first encountered MiMi through the remarkable Homeless in America, which was the lens of the day when I first discovered Squidoo, both inspiring me and leaving me a little in awe as a brand new lensmaster.

I know MiMi has made a great many friends during her Squidoo journey and is both widely respected and held in great affection. I have a feeling they will add their own personal wishes here or elsewhere, but on behalf of all of us at Squidoo Lens Reviews, we wish you all the best on your special day. Many happy returns to you, MiMi!

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Efforts To Save The Animals

It's hard to turn on the television today and not see something about BP and the Gulf of Mexico oil spill. This is truly the worst manmade disaster of our time. The Valdez oil spill in Alaska is miniscule in comparison to this. It only involved the oil being carried in one oil tanker. This spill is in its 62nd day and continues to pump oil into the Gulf of Mexico as I write this. It is a sad state of affairs to say the least. I saw a piece on CNN yesterday telling of BP building the type of oil rig like the one that exploded 35% of the time. Other oil companies build this type of rig 1-5% of the time. It is the most dangerous, but the cheapest type of rig to build. Shame on you, BP!

The economic effect will be astronomical. People are losing their livelihoods. Marine life and birds are losing their lives. We may never know the full impact of this disaster. It will be affecting life and commerce for years to come. There are many organizations on the front lines helping as best they can. Cynthia, aka Sylvestermouse, has written a superb article about the organizations she knows are working to help the marine life and wildlife along the Gulf Coast. It is heart-wrenching to see photos and videos of sick or dead creatures covered in oil. She also tells of a family member who is the sole support of her family losing her job because of this catastrophe. This disaster has hit close to home for Cynthia.

The Gulf Coast was devastated by Hurricane Katrina and many areas have not fully recovered from that. Now their lives are being threatedned by yet another disaster. What will hurricane season bring for these folks this year? I shudder to think. The oil is already starting to reach the Florida Panhandle where many of the beaches are pristine. The beautiful white sands won't be beautiful or white for much longer. Beaches along the Gulf Coast are silent. Sounds of the seagulls and other marine birds are noticably absent. I just can't imagine being on a beach and not seeing any seagulls, pelicans, or sandpipers. It would be eerie.

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The Sarabear Chronicles

Sarabear is a horse. If you have not spent time around horses, you may be wondering what kinds of chronicles could be told about them. While I have never been around horses much myself, I do have a sister and two nieces who adore them. They recently acquired a horse named “Sunshine” and are boarding him at a neighbor’s farm, where they volunteer in exchange for boarding.

Recently, I had a chance to meet Sunshine and was amazed to hear the stories about each of the horses distinct personalities, and who gets along with whom. At this farm, some of the horses are trained for therapy, helping kids with emotional disabilities. My niece pointed out one of the therapy horses who has quite a bossy personality, yet is one of the best at his job. She also said that this horse was one of her favorites.

Lensmaster Wysiwigs is also obsessed with horses and runs a small family-run charity called Epic Farms. I always enjoy reading her entertaining articles about the farm because she speaks of the horses just like my nieces do, as personal friends. One of her recent articles, Meet Sara (or The Sarabear Chronicles), tells the story of integrating their newest horse, Sarabear, into the herd. Apparently, being the new girl in a herd of horses is a lot like high school, with hormonal boys, brownnosers, and mean girls alike! She writes, "Rina, in a bout of teenage drama, has decided that Sara's presence here is unacceptable and ruining her life. Really." You’ll just have to read this hilarious story for yourself.

On another note, this page donates 100% of its proceeds to Epic Farms and is in contention for a Summer Sunshine Award, which would mean an additional $99 for Epic Farms and an additional $99 for the author. So, if you think it’s worthy, please nominate it for the award, according to the instructions on the page.

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Celebrate Fairies on Fairy Day

Do you love fairies?

I do.

I'm fascinated by certain elemental fairies (fairies of earth, air, fire and water). I like water fairies, but I'm particularly drawn to earth fairies which are often associated with forests and meadows. My name means "graceful meadow" and I want to build my dream home in the midst of an incredible meadow yard with a huge tree in the middle (the forest aspect). I think it'll be full of meadow fairies, don't you?

"Fairies are the sacred spirit or presence that animates and enlivens all of nature." ~ Sirona Knight

I love the connection with nature, but fairies represent something even more significant to me - - growth, transformation and freedom of expression. I even have pictures of fairies on my dream board to symbolize complete expression of all I am.

"Elves and fairies are a natural expression of your inner being that includes your dreams, aspirations, and desire for something more in life than what's being offered. Elves and fairies beckon you to a world where anything is possible as long as you set your mind to it!" ~ Sirona Knight

Although I love fairies and their symbolism is important to me, I wasn't aware that there's an annual celebration associated with fairies until I read WhiteOak50's lens all about Fairy Day!

Fairy Day is held each year on June 24. It's a day of celebrating nature and everything to do with fairies.

Not sure how you'd go about celebrating? WhiteOak50 offers many possibilities, made even more captivating by the hauntingly beautiful music on the lens and WhiteOak50's own fairy designs. Imagine dressing up as the fairy you love the most from childhood fairy tales or blowing bubbles, leaving little fairy kisses when they pop!

"Fairy Day" is a delightful lens that invites the child in everyone to come out and play on Fairy Day.

What will you do to celebrate Fairy Day?

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Fulfilling Our Passions!

Today’s post is about passion! Passion for food and a passion for what we do! According to Merriam Webster dictionary passion is “a strong liking or desire for or devotion to some activity, object or concept”. I know that sounds all official and stuff, however as I pick it apart – simplify it to a couple of power words passion means fervor (warm and steady emotion) and zeal (energetic and unflagging pursuit). You will see here, in a minute, exactly what I’m talking about.

Wondering if you've heard about the SquidClubs? Well, in a nutshell, they are Squidoo articles that feature super niche topics, each has their own theme design and club leader. Launched in April of 2010 right now there are 11 established SquidClubs with topics covering curvaceous girls, holidays, horses to food, plus much more! If you peruse through the list of well over 200 articles already designed for the clubs there is one thing very evident, these articles are jam-packed full of passion! Like a streaker running across a football field there is one club in particular, that has my full attention!

As a food lover, recipe sharer, writer, mom, photographer…everything about The Kawaii Bento Club makes me sit up and take notice. Briton, known as enslavedbyfaeries to those of us that Squidoo, turned her curiosity and desire for healthy eating first into a lens, now into a club. A club that has over 50 articles and a Facebook page all about bento!

Let me hone in on one of The Kawaii Bento Club articles that's worth our time and attention. It’s Toadstools & Snails Bento Box, designed with passion and love by enslavedbyfaeries. With personal touches about how she came up with this bento box design it includes over 25 photos and visual/written instructional step-by-steps so that you too can make this adorable, edible obento for your family. Today Briton’s article was selected for Lens of the Day and I am very honored to feature it here on Squidoo Lens Reviews too! Now scooch on over there to check Toadstools & Snails Bento Box for yourself…I know you won’t be disappointed!

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Sea Turtles In The Gulf Of Mexico

As the world watches and waits for the oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico to find some resolution, as the massive task of clean-up continues, and as we hope that containment of the oil will finally happen; our attention is called to the people and wildlife that this black mess is effecting. Most of us can't help but be affected emotionally by the damage being done to Mother Earth, her waters, her human children, and her creatures.

Many Native Tribal traditions use the name Turtle Island for the continent we call North America. In many teachings of the indigenous peoples of North America, Turtle is the oldest symbol for Mother Earth. Turtle can usually be found in many of the creation stories of several cultures around the world. So, with the oil spill my mind couldn't help but go to the Sea Turtles that come to the shores of the States who are kissed each day by the waters from the Gulf of Mexico. These Turtles who have been coming to these shores to hatch their young for centuries are already endangered and many will not be able to survive the toxicity of this oil. The adults will struggle and the hatchlings aren't given much hope of survival.

There is a wonderful article by Rio1 who writes about one of the species of Sea Turtles found in the Gulf of Mexico. Kemp's Ridley Sea Turtle In Louisiana tells about this endangered species in the area. There are updates and information about the oil spill as well. Rio tells us that this smallest of the Gulf Coast sea turtles was making quite a come back in population until this recent tragedy.

We have all seen the devastating images on our local news of the wildlife and the attempts to rescue as many species as we humanly are able to. Not just the sea turtles, but pelicans and other creatures who live and breed on the Gulf Coast shorelines are valiantly being helped by humans each day. I salute the people who are there and the work that they are doing. My heart breaks for the families who are being economically effected by this oil spill at a time when the economy is already so very broken.

Each of us might be able to make some sort of difference. Some might be able to give of their time and help with the clean-up and some may be able to help someone financially. Something that we all can do is pray. We can pray to the God that we worship and ask for healing. Healing of the Earth, healing for the waters, healing for the creatures, and humans. We can ask that the right thoughts can be put into the heads of the people who are in charge of fixing the leak to actually fix it. We can pray that the right thoughts can be put into the heads of the officials who need to make the choices in how best to contain the oil. We can pray for the healing to begin.

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Hawaii Ghost Stories

It is often the places most distant from us that seem the most magical and enticing. And indeed, from where I write this, the islands of Hawaii are as remote as a storybook land. But even if Hawaii was not quite so far geographically, I can't imagine that it would lose any the mystical aura that the very names of the islands conjure up.

Hawaii is synonymous with tropical paradise, with flower garlands and joyful celebrations. However, it also seems to be a deeply spiritual place, rich in myth and legend. I recently read Cloud Atlas, a novel that includes a post-apocalyptic Hawaii among the shifting settings. Here too, in this fictional future world, the lives of the island inhabitants were not only rooted in spiritual beliefs but seemed to co-exist with these good and evil forces.

Reading Haunted Hawaii - Sprits of the Pacific, an account of real-life encounters with the spirits of Hawaii, I came to the conclusion that where Hawaii is concerned fiction and truth are not far removed. KonaGirl describes a land in which spirits are simply another element of the environment. One to be wondered at, yes, but also respected. Whether ghosts or goddesses, there is always the chance of a meeting (though invariably on the spirit's terms, as KonaGirl points out), and the Goddess Pele in particular is a great force in this volcanic land. Living memory holds tales of the swift and merciless outcome of provoking her displeasure. Chance eruptions weaved into bedtime stories for children, or proof of greater forces at work?

Sceptical readers will find the myths and sightings that are recorded here interesting in spite of their fantastic nature. However, you may yet be persuaded to open your mind as you read these tales. KonaGirl herself has encountered Pele not once but twice. Her hitchhiker story gave me chills. Discover too her own story of the Night Marchers -- no hand-me-down story embellished over the generations to delight the kids, but a first-hand account.

There are several other ghost stories here, including a couple of gory ones (definitely NOT bedtime stories!). There are also plenty of photos and videos, both scenic and ghostly, and a whole host of links to further resources. Whether your interest is Hawaii itself, a fascination with the spiritual realm, or you just enjoy a thrilling read, this article will well reward a reader with time to dwell on its many offerings.

And, if you do visit Hawaii, remember KonaGirl's warning: never remove rocks from around Pele's volcano realm -- or risk bringing the wrath of this goddess down on your own head!

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Friends in Spirit

Yesterday, I had the pleasure of meeting one of my mentors on Squidoo and fellow writer on this blog, Bev Owens, known as bevspaper. My family was going out to dinner with some neighbors and they were joking about how they would explain that Mom was not there because she was meeting her “online friend.” Now that the web has evolved, that term “online friend” has taken on a whole new meaning. The Internet allows us to connect with people all over the world about issues or common interests. In the course of conversations or reading their writings, we actually get to know people pretty well. We become friends in spirit.

Another of my online friends is Michelle, known as a_willow. Michelle is from Croatia and it is unlikely (but not impossible) that we will ever be able to meet face to face. When I told her that I was meeting with Bev, she said to give her a big hug. Michelle has written an inspirational article on friendship which asks the question, “Is it possible to have a friend whom you've never met in person?" Her answer is an unequivocal YES and she tells why on her page.

A friend is someone who is there for you in time rather than space. Some qualities that Michelle values in a friend are generosity (of time and attention), trustworthiness, and straightforwardness. Her friends are also open-minded, enthusiastic, courageous, and creative. Michelle is persistent when working towards a goal and finds that she looks for friends with the same quality. With a friend you can be spontaneous and show your deepest self. Michelle has many friends online that have these qualities. This article is interspersed with quotes that will make you appreciate your friends even more and want to be a better one.

Once you have an online friend, it is natural that you would want to meet. But if that is not possible, you can be friends in spirit. Do you agree or not?

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The Art of Invisible Cupcake Decoration

I'm often quite deep and serious. I love lenses about meaningful topics that make a difference for people.

But I also love to laugh and I thought you might enjoy some lighthearted fun today as well. Lensmaster, Flynn_the_Cat has built one of the most unique lenses I've seen in a while . . . not to mention the fact that it cracked me up!

After finding that "an appalling lack of information abounded" about the topic, Flynn_the_Cat decided to rectify the situation with this lens and, at the same time, provide a culinary option suitable for vegans, people who dislike cooking, people with allergies of any kind and people who need an inexpensive party snack quickly.

What's the topic, you ask?

Well, invisible cupcakes, of course!

With uncommon creativity, Flynn_the_Cat presents easy-to-follow instructions for how to make and decorate these amazingly versatile invisible cupcakes. She doesn't stop there, though. She offers thoughts about the presentation of your invisible cupcakes (so important), benefits of the delicious treats (surprisingly, there are many) and plenty of opportunities for sharing your own ideas, opinions and experiences through multiple interactive modules!

Not sure what could possibly be asked about invisible food? Wondering how an entire lens could be written about something that you can't see and that doesn't even exit? Check it out! I encourage you to get involved in the discussion about invisible cupcakes and enjoy a few laughs. Laughter . . . and food? . . . is good for the soul.

And underlying the humor may even be something more meaningful, afterall. As stated in a video included on the lens, "the art is in the idea . . . and the object itself is only a byproduct of the creative impluse."

As an artist, could Flynn_the_Cat be getting at something deeper here?

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Image Credit: INVISIBLE CUPCAKES Apron by Flynn_the_Cat
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Losing A Pet Is Never Easy

Losing a pet is difficult no matter what the circumstances are leading up the dreaded event especially if your family is like mine.  In our family our pets become a member of the family.  Even my 3 year old's battery operated hamster has carved out his place in family and in our hearts.

No pet, past or present, has been treated more human like than my canine brother Yoyo.  He became a member of our family when my late step dad and my mom married almost 10 years ago.  At first he really didn't like any of us, but he grew to love us just as we grew to love him.  I even tried to get my little one to call him uncle Yoyo because I thought it was cute.

As most of you know, I lost my step dad 3 months ago, and yesterday we lost his baby Yoyo.  Yoyo was almost 13 years old.  He was a dappled miniature dachshund and was the most beautiful dog I think I've ever seen.  Yoyo was full of personality and he was a pleasure to be around most of the time.  Sometimes he'd get mad and chew up anything left on the floor, or snatch a cookie from the hand of an unsuspecting 3 year old, or hide under the bed when he needed to go out, but all those aggravations were worth the company and the happiness he brought into our lives.

This morning Yoyo was on my mind and the pain of his passing was weighing heavily on my heart.  I decided to search Squidoo for something about loosing a pet.  I discovered that there is a National Pet Memorial Day. Who would have thought there would be such a day? I have to thank awelldressedbullet for sharing this day with me and everyone else.

National Pet Memorial Day is a stunning lens. It is visually appealing and filled with beautiful words of comfort and love for those that have lost pets in the past. There are also many ideas about how to celebrate your pet's life on this very special day.

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Image Credit: Dachshund Dog Art Print by mmbenya

Dean Martin Was The King Of Cool

Dean Martin would have celebrated his 93rd birthday yesterday if he were still with us. Even after 15 years of him leaving this earth, I think he still reigns as the King of Cool. At least, he still does in my eyes. The man could sing, act, and was the funniest straight man ever to grace the stage. As a member of the Rat Pack he hung out with Frank Sinatra, Sammy Davis Jr, Peter Lawford, and Joey Bishop. With a number of infamous antics these guys defined cool when I was a kid. I wonder what Dean would think about the entertainers now that are going back to his and Frank's style of singing.

As I was preparing for my post this week, I started to scout around for an article that paid tribute to my favorite Italian-American singer. I found a few but thought that Sami4u did the best job of portraying Dino. Her article Dean Martin - The King of Cool really gives some nice biographical information about Dean along with a nice video of him singing "That's Amore". I am not sure of the age of Sami but from her picture she definitely looks too young to have been able to experience his heyday of fame like this old broad did. So, for her to recognize Dean Martin as the epitome of cool is well...COOL!

Dean Martin's music just makes me smile when I hear it. He could sing a romantic ballad just as well as something light hearted and fun. I think it is wonderful that many of today's young people have embraced Dino's music too. When my little granddaughter, Isabel, comes for a visit we love to dance to a variety of music. In an afternoon we may listen to Lady Gaga, Cher, and Dean Martin. Her two favorites by Dean are "Sway" (one of Grandma's favorites too!) and "Mambo Italiano". My daughter laughs and says that they can be riding in the car and suddenly Isabel breaks out in a chorus of "Hey Mambo, Mambo Italiano. Go Go Joe". What a riot! By the way, Isabel is 4 years old and like Sami4u and me she knows good music when she hears it.

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Discovering Artist John Sloane

On beautiful summer days like today, I want to find a way to capture the blue sky, the leaves fluttering in the slight breath of a breeze, and the birdsong. I want to be able to preserve the feeling of dappled sun and shade across my skin, and the scent of flowers in full bloom. Summertime memories are made of such things.

Perhaps this is why I admire artists so much -- they have the gift of being able to capture the very essence of a transient moment, be it a summer afternoon, a fleeting passion, or the way the light falls on a wine glass.

John Sloane is one such artist. I had not heard of him before, but when I saw that puzzlemaker had written an article about her favourite artist I knew I would not be disappointed. Far from it!

Artist John Sloane is a talent indeed, who in his paintings has combined enchanting scenes of a long ago world with themes that resonate with us all: seasons, nature, childhood. Though the fashions change, who among us cannot recall from our own experiences a memory of sitting on daisy-dotted summer grass listening to a teacher? Or pausing in a moment of work to lose ourselves in the beauty of the sky above? Though what he shows us is in many ways a better world, eternal memories lie within the scenes.

But these paintings are by no means the only reason to visit this article. Every bit as engaging is puzzlemaker's own beautifully-expressed passion for his artwork and her story of how this prompted a quest of several years duration to find John Sloane.

Such persistence pays off, and find him she did. Better than that, she interviewed him via email and shares his responses with us. And in the process has gained him more than one new admirer, I'm certain!

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Birthday Wishes

We bring you breaking news with this unscheduled post. There is one very special man who is celebrating his birthday today and we want to join in on the fun. He is a guy many of us know and love on Squidoo. He has made us laugh, made us think, and taken us on a journey on the back of his motorcycle a time or two. Let me tell you just a little bit about this Birthday Boy.

Alex Crabtree is well known in the Squidoo circuit as Drifter0658. He rides his bike around telling us tales about some of his adventures on that bike. I think I join everyone in being glad that he has traveled back safely to us after having Ridden The Tail of Dragon! And of course this bike ridin' Dude can tell us all about the proper attire when riding along with him if we read his article Biker Leather Jackets for Men.

Our fast ridin' Alex is also a bit of a history buff. His Old West Legends ~ Bill Miner tells us about a Gentleman Bandit who led quite an amazing life. He masterfully shared the dirty side of Thomas Jefferson.

Alex is a member of the Giant 100 Club at Squidoo and at the time of this writing he has 111 articles under his belt. He is a talented writer that can write about so many different topics besides the ones outlined above. From blues music to how to use wordpress you will thoroughly enjoy every minute that you read his work.

So, my dear friend Alex...we toast you today. We salute your talent. We adore your humor. We are grateful for all that you do for so many of us. Happy Birthday, Buddy!

Visit Drifter0658 for some awesome reading.

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Apple Harvest Discovery

There is nothing better than family history and memories. Revisiting stories of the past make our lives today that much richer. As many of you may know I’ve been sharing recipes from my Grandma Katie’s journals via my blog over at Crabbysbeach, so when I find food related articles that speak of memories and things handed down to us from our grandmas and grandpas it’s hard to turn away, I’m instantly engaged.

The award winning article by FledglingStudio_com weaves a story around an accidental discovery by his Grandpa during the Fall harvesting of apples. Assuming a failure upon realizing he’d left over 25 pounds of apples in the dehydrator overnight, Grandpa almost admitted defeat. However, our grandmas and grandpas came from hardier stock then that – after all they’d been through a Depression which in turn made them fully understand the value of a dollar and the idiom…”waste not, want not” was tightly intertwined into their daily lives and ways of thinking.

Those 25 pounds of apples did not go to waste; instead that accidental discovery made grandpa’s recipe the family star, sometimes to the chagrin of grandma I might add. Grandpa’s Crunchy Apple Chips recipe has been passed down through the generations and is now featured for all of us to enjoy too!

So it’s not just this breakthrough apple recipe that has taught us a lesson here, it’s that frame of mind our grandpas and grandmas had to not give up or give in. That sharing our stories of the past can help us create new family memories to carry on the traditions of those we love and care about the most.

As you read this post today I’d like to offer up a challenge, of sorts, for you to discover and share at least one of your family recipes – weave your story into an article for all of us to read, enjoy and pass on.

Side note: FledglingStudio_com even shares his not-to-be-outdone recipe from his grandma for chewy fruit leather ;)

Visit: Grandpa's Crunchy Apple Chips

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Image Credit: Camille Pissarro - Apple Harvest Eragny 1888 Oil by inquester on Zazzle

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The Renaissance Man

The Wikipedia entry for Leonardo da Vinci begins, “Leonardo da Vinci (1452 – 1519) was an Italian polymath: painter, sculptor, architect, musician, scientist, mathematician, engineer, inventor, anatomist, geologist, cartographer, botanist and writer.” All I can say is WOW!

Imagine being known 500 years after your death as the creator of, arguably, two of the most famous paintings in the world (the Mona Lisa and The Last Supper), one of the most famous drawings of all time (Vitruvian Man), and also revered as a scientist and inventor. Leonardo da Vinci had an unquenchable curiosity and thirst for knowledge. Being interested in art and science myself, it is no wonder that I find him to be endlessly fascinating.

Ulla Hennig (ulla_hennig) is a writer from Berlin who is an expert on the Italian Renaissance and classical music. Her interests also include photography, painting, and drawing, so it is no stretch that she was drawn to write about Leonardo da Vinci, the quintessential Renaissance man. While there are several lenses on Leonardo da Vinci, Ulla writes about him from the perspective of the Renaissance, noting that he was one of three famous artists from this era, the other two being Michelangelo and Raphael.

I found it interesting that Ulla used this quote by da Vinci, “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication,” because her page is also simple and sophisticated. She uses words sparingly but gets across the basics about Leonardo da Vinci, including his early influences and what he was known for in each of his interest areas. She leaves us with a basic understanding of da Vinci, yet wanting to know more, not only about him, but the Italian Renaissance as well. My only suggestion to Ulla would be to point to other resources, including some of her own lenses on the Renaissance.

What do you know or admire about Leonardo da Vinci?

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Image Credit: Leonardo daVinci by BrianDemeter

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The Health Benefits of Walking in Nature

I love walking in nature.

One of my favorite places to be is walking down a path close to my home. The path winds through the middle of the big city, but takes me into wild, serene places that seem so far away from the activities of daily life. After just a few steps, I'm enveloped by the most incredible scenery and natural beauty that initiates deeper breathing, a slower pace and heightened awareness within myself, as well as increased enjoyment of my surroundings.

For me, it's a way to connect with nature . . . to experience interconnectedness with all things. I love the sounds and smells. I love the unique intricacies of the wild growth. And I love to ponder different elements that I encounter. It often becomes a source of inspiration or wisdom for me and I leave the area calm, yet energized, and focused on what's deeply meaningful to me.

Since nature walks are so significant for me, I was glad to find a lens by Comfortdoc, all about the benefits of walking in nature.

Intertwined with beautiful quotations and images, are ideas that expand on this quote by John Muir, "In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks." How true! In Nature Therapy, Comfortdoc reviews many ways that walking in nature can benefit our minds, our bodies and our spirits, giving us much more than we could have expected.

In addition to more common ways of walking in nature like what I described above, Comfortdoc adds walking meditation, walking labyrinths and grief walking. As she discusses these more unfamiliar methods, she shares her expertise as a Physician who works with people experiencing life challenges. She suggests these types of nature walks as a positive way to work through difficult times. For example, she quotes Dr. Bernie Seigel, "If you watch how nature deals with adversity, continually renewing itself, you can't help but learn."

Has nature helped you through tough times? How have you experienced the therapy of nature in other ways? What has it taught you?

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Image Credit: Woods Card by emele1
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