Are you a Perfectionist?

I am a big fan of the Enneagram personality test, which outlines nine basic personality types of human nature and their interrelationships.

Each "number" manifests itself based on certain motivations, coming from the ego. By becoming aware of these motivations, we can uncover our basic essence, our higher calling if you will. For me, the Enneagram has been very helpful, not only in understanding myself and why I do the things I do, but also in understanding the motivations of others.

Usually, a person will resonate most deeply with one of the nine personality numbers - mine being five, the Investigator. The number one represents the perfectionist personality. These personality types are identified by a need to always do things the right way. They can be hard on themselves and others. While having high ideals is a good thing, it can be taken to an extreme that is not helpful. Perhaps you are like this yourself. If not, odds are you know someone who is.

Bev, known as bevspaper on Squidoo, has written an excellent article about this personality type, called The Perfectionist Personality. It is a beautifully designed article which covers all aspects of the perfectionist personality, both positive and negative. She provides links to books that can provide more detailed information, helping the person of this type realize their strengths, and also be aware of when they are reaching unhealthy stress levels.

I particularly liked her perfectionist quotes, including this one by Confucius.

Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.

Bev also has articles on The Helper Personality (two on the Enneagram) and The Achiever Personality (three on the Enneagram). I look forward to reading about the other types as she expands on this niche.

Learn more about the Enneagram at this site - the Enneagram Institute.

Image Credit: Perfectionist by Blendsur

Written by kimmanleyort