The Gift of Joy

I can't believe it is Monday of Christmas week, 2010. The days and months and years are flying by. When I was growing up and complained about a week dragging by, my dad would laugh and tell me not to wish my life away. He'd say "As you get older, it goes faster. Enjoy it." All I can say is Daddy was right!

The holiday season goes faster each year -- it's Halloween, then Thanksgiving and before I know it, Christmas arrives -- ready or not. Sunday night I was floating around Squidoo visiting lenses, taking quizzes and voting in polls when I ran across the title; The Gift of Joy - A Gift to Share. I was intrigued because it was listed as a Holiday Gift Guide. I clicked.

As I read the introduction, I knew I was going to enjoy this lens. It's by a wonderful lensmaster most of you know very well, Joan4. Since I "met" Joan through the Open Mike Blog Talk Radio Show, I have been a fan. She is funny, upbeat, positive and encouraging. This lens was no letdown.

She opens by writing about how "joy" is sometimes lost during the holiday season due to pressures of shopping, finances or other outside influences. Then, she boldly proclaims:

"Let's bring some Joy to the season!!"

I can just hear her saying that with conviction in her sweet Southern accent. And, the lens proves she meant what she said.

About her third module down, Joan shares what brings joy to her. Simple caring, sharing, gestures; her family; friendships and more. My favorite is the first item on her list: Dancing with hubby in the kitchen for no reason at all. It reminds me my childhood and the joy I got watching my parents dancing across the living room when they heard a pleasing tune on TV, the radio or stereo.

Joan's lens is a reminder of what the holiday season should be about:

During the holiday season, focus on the moments. It does not matter if your tree is perfect, or your front door is the prettiest on the street. What matters is that you enjoy the moments with the people that you love -- and then spread that joy as far as you can, with thanksgiving that you have it to share.

Whether you are "hiding a dollar bill on a grocery store shelf", happy to be living or counting your blessings in family and friends, bringing "Joy" into your holiday celebration is a must! Thanks for the reminder and the wonderful example you set, Joan!

Image Credit:"Joy to the World" - Christmas card by colourfuldesigns